The Solutions Focused Coach

Welcome to SF Coaching in Schools

Solutions Focused Coaching provides Early Help for children, young people, families and staff.

SFCiS strengthen peoples’ sense of self-esteem, building on their social and emotional resources and reducing distress by speedily replacing problems with their solutions.

Practical Early Help focusing on solutions prevents exclusions, supports mental health and wellbeing, saves time and money and builds success.

SFCiS has a clear structure and a simple process, built on a foundation of current scientific evidence and world-wide application.

On offer – training and development; low-cost courses; online support; coaching supervision; reframing and rewriting school policies and practical action.

Putting the needs of children first as they grow and develop means we can agree on:

putting relationships, consistency, care and compassion at the head of school policies
responding in the first place with unconditional positive regard, knowing that children are doing their best even when it might not look like it at first
reconnecting behaviour with learning and good mental and physical health
the need for rules & reminders to provide structure for the school community but knowing their limits

We’re all included in responding to children’s needs and we’ve invented a spectrum of responses from authoritarian as one bookend to unconditional positive regard as the other.

But what do we do next, if what we are doing already fails to meet the needs of individual children and the school community as a whole and we turn to exclusions as a last resort? What can provide the supportive structure when general kindness seems too loose and ineffectual and punishment control seems to be all that’s left?

Solutions Focused Coaching can provide what’s needed. It puts structure together with kindness to meet children’s needs and engage them in their learning. SF Coaching guarantees action against exclusion and a focus on staff and student wellbeing. It is an elegantly simple form of educational inquiry, powered by hopefulness and the search for success and meaning. It is disciplined, evidence informed practice, supporting mental health, inclusion and engagement as school-based, whole-school, educational, practical pastoral practice.

What’s your next? Could it be a Solutions Focused Coaching?

The Difference that makes a Difference

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Posted: October 17, 2019
Under: Action against exclusion, educational literacy, first response, inclusion, mental heath literacy, pastoral support, Solutions Focused coaching

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Posted: September 18, 2019
Under: Action against exclusion, first response, inclusion, mental heath literacy, pastoral support, Solutions Focused coaching

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All you need is love

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Posted: September 11, 2019
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